Sunday, May 31, 2009

Sarah's Memory Chest

Since the passing of Sarah, I have searched to find a small cedar chest to hold some of her clothing, blankets and favorite things. This chest was delivered to our home on Friday. As a family we enjoyed gathering some of Sarah's belongings to place in it. We reminisced over sweet memories and special events in her life. This will become a precious family heirloom to remind family today and tomorrow of our little girl.
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Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Hurricane Preparedness Week

This week is National Hurricane Preparedness Week. The 2009 hurricane season will officially begin on June 1st. This may not mean a whole lot to those of you who live far away from the coast, but to Texans it is now time to prepare!

On September 12th of last year, Hurricane Ike slammed into Galveston and carried powerful winds and several inches of rain. Our neighborhood was unfortunate to be in Ike's path of destruction. Hundreds of trees were uprooted and many roofs were damaged. The area experienced major flooding, downed fencing and telephone poles lying in the streets. A 50 ft. tree fell through our backyard fence, barely missing our home. Trees were uprooted in our front yard and debris covered our lawn and street. I remember being awake at midnight, feeding my five-day-old baby, when the electricity went out. Little did I know it would be 15 days before the lights came back on.

Through our experience with Ike we learned many valuable lessons--especially that of being prepared for natural disasters. We were grateful we had enough food, water and flashlights. But we soon discovered many other items that helped us endure the long hot days without electricity. So here is a list of items we found to be most helpful...

1. Water Store plenty of water. Freeze some water bottles if you can, they will make great ice blocks in the event that your power goes out and you need to store food in coolers. Water bottles can be rationed nicely for drinking. Save your large water barrels for baths and dish washing. Also consider filling up the bathtubs in your home to help flush toilets, wash hands, etc.

2. Lanterns and Flashlights Flashlights are helpful, but lanterns are better! You will need one to cook with at night, one by the sink to wash dishes, one in a bathroom and one on the kitchen table. Give each of the children a flashlight he or she can use at night.

3. Batteries Make sure you have plenty of D's (for your lanterns), C's and AA's. Check each flashlight to make sure they all work and have new batteries.

4. Matches If you have a gas stove you will need these to light the burners.

5. Landline Telephone Wireless and cordless phones seldom work after a big storm. Landline phones will work, just plug them into the phone outlet.

6. Ice If you can predict when the storm is coming, freeze water bottles and purchase DRY/Normal ice. Ice becomes a rare, most wanted commodity. Dry ice lasts longer.

7. Food Now is the time to eat up the food in the freezer. If the power goes out you are likely to lose meats and other frozen items. Stock the pantry shelves with the following items:

Canned and Dry Goods (soups, fruits, veggies, beans, meats etc.) Purchase some dry cereal and pancake mix. Make sure the pancake mix does not require eggs. Stock up on honey and syrup.

Healthy Snacks Crackers, granola bars, pretzels, nuts, raisins, fruit leather, chocolate chips (if you are one who needs chocolate).

Lunch Items If a storm hits and causes destruction, our men will be asked to go out during the day and help storm victims. They will need to take food with them: Sliced bread, tuna, peanut butter, pudding, or anything from the shelf that is small and portable.

Luxury Pantry Items Fruit juice, Gatorade, Nutella, Ovaltine (to use with dry milk), cookies, trail mix.

8. Baby's Needs If you have a baby, stock the shelves with diapers, wipes, baby food and formula.

9. Garbage Bags You will have an abundance of trash. You will need the large, sturdy bags to pick up debris in your yard. Make sure you have plenty of garbage bags in your kitchen as well. The trash collectors do not come if the roads are blocked with trees or debris. Plan to pile up the garbage safely so that the smell can be contained and rodents and other animals do not invade your neighborhood.

10. Paper Goods You will not want to waste water on washing plates and flatware. Purchase large amounts of plates, utensils and cups. You will also want plenty of paper towels and napkins. Be sure to stock up on toilet paper and sanitary supplies.

11. Cash Make sure you have cash on hand--preferably in small bills. Many stores may not be able to accept debit/credit cards.

12. Propane If you do not have a gas stove, purchase an extra propane tank for your grill.

13. Generator Consider your need for electricity. If you want to run a refrigerator, washer, fan or even your television you will need electricity. Generators do not run by themselves so you will need a lot of gas. Plan accordingly and stock up on gas before the storm hits.

14. Air Conditioner Window Unit or Fan During a hot Texas summer the heat becomes a major issue without air conditioning. A mid-size generator will support a window air conditioning unit in addition to other appliances. Even a small fan will provide relief from the heat.

15. All Weather Radio These crank radios will keep you informed of the storm's path and help you stay connected to the outside world.

16. Gas Make sure gas tanks are full in all vehicles.

17. Large Tarps and 2 x 4's You can cover roof damage by laying a tarp down and nailing 2 x 4's on the edges.

19. First Aid Kit and Insect Repellent

20. Pet Food

What has been helpful to you in the midst of a natural disaster? Please share!

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Memorial Day Weekend



This morning Caroline and I visited Sarah's gravesite to bring flowers and view her headstone for the first time. It was a touching sight to see family members of so many decorating the graves of their loved ones. We brought small tokens of love from Nathan and Maren to leave for their sister. Later in the day grandparents and cousins also stopped by to pay tribute to our beautiful little Sarah.


Sunday, May 17, 2009

The Turtle Master


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I think we have a zoologist-in-training. Nathan has a definite eye for critters. In the past two weeks, he has captured two turtles from the small lake near our home. The first turtle, a diminutive fellow, was nicknamed Ted. It is now the pet-in-residence for Nathan's third grade classroom. It dines on regular meals of crickets from Petco.
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Tonight, Nathan almost jumped out of his skin with excitement when he spotted this large turtle on the bank of the lake. After mustering up enough courage, he quickly scooped it out of the water as the turtle's head and legs quickly disappeared into its shell. "Wilbur", as this amphibian is now called, spent the afternoon in the Giles birdbath.

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Friday, May 15, 2009

A Fun Field Day!

Nathan and Maren enjoyed a day of fun out on the school field. Blue skies, warm temperatures, hundreds of happy kids in colored t-shirts, relay races, water bottles and pop music brought smiles, energy and sweat! The children raced from one end of the field to the other in potato bags, with jump ropes, balloons, and two-legged relays. Caroline and I cheered and watched all the action from the sidelines. Way to go Nathan and Maren!

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Surprise on The Doorstep

Dearest Family and Friends,

This morning when I awoke my thoughts turned to Sarah. Today marks five months since her passing. To deal with many emotions, I knew I could benefit from a little outside time. I spent the early afternoon trimming flowers and watering the flowerbeds. The warm, bright sun seemed to fill my heart with peace. While I worked I thought of how our family would celebrate this Mother's Day. I thought of the sweet mothers in my life and my role as a mother to four beautiful children. Shortly after I came inside, a five year old neighbor knocked on the door explaining that someone had left something on my doorstep. She handed me a beautifully wrapped package. I discovered a precious volume of compiled letters and stories written to me from my dear family and friends. I found a quiet room in the house and began to read. I was humbled and touched by the memories shared and the beautiful letters of love and encouragement. What a treasure. I was overcome as I read the notes from those whom I love and respect so dearly. Please know of my gratitude for each of you. Your words have lifted my heart this day. Thank you for your love and devotion to me and my family.

With much love,
Christine

A special thanks to my sweet friends Cherise and Sheralie for producing and designing this priceless book.

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Motherhood

As Mother's Day approaches, I feel joy and gratitude for motherhood. I am reminded of how important my role is as a mother. What a great responsibility I have to love, teach, nurture, and guide my children. I recognize that what I do each day determines the success and happiness of my family. I am thankful that I am not alone. I have so many wonderful examples of women around me who know how to mother. I also know that I can rely on our Father in Heaven. He will inspire, lift and encourage me as I go about this most important, sacred work.

I am thankful for a dear mother who has taught me through her example. Growing up in a busy home with five children, mom was always on her feet! She never complained about the daily tasks of caring for her family. She happily went about accomplishing her mile long list of to-do's which included everything from: Dinner, laundry, carpooling, church, sewing dresses and braiding hair! My mother always seemed to have enough time to attend our ball games, recitals, and any other activity we were involved with. Mom gave each one of us individual attention and always showed her love in special ways. I will be forever grateful for the life my mother gave me.

My beautiful mother holding me and my twin sister, Carrie.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Memorial Service

This afternoon our family attended a Houston Hospice memorial service. We joined other families who had lost loved ones through terminal illness during the past six months. At the service, pictures were presented of those who had passed away. When Sarah's picture appeared we were able to stand as a family to remember her.
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The children and I with Sarah's Hospice Nurse and Doctor.